Mother's Day - Discuss

14/05/2008

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How was Mother's Day this year for everyone?

My siblings and I were afraid to ask Mum what she wanted for Mother's Day, because she would have probably replied, "Grandchildren." So we took her (and the rest of the family) out for a nice meal instead.

I must say that I found the Mother's Day marketing frenzy quite frightening this year.

Diamonds! Spa days! Perfume! Laser Skin Rejuvenation! This was not helped by radio DJs telling people what to buy in the weeks before, and then encouraging mothers to ring up and complain the day after if they thought the gifts the children got them were crappy.

Where does Mother's Day rank in terms of gift-giving? Lower than birthdays? Higher than Christmas? What about Valentine's Day? Good grief. What's going to be commercialised next? If retailers thought they could get away with it, they would probably take over Anzac Day as well. Luckily they've stopped at the biscuits.

I watched Alvin and the Chipmunks on Saturday night, and it was very enjoyable for a children's movie (unlike Curious George, which alternately bored or annoyed me--ha! I'm ready for your hate mail, CG fans). It didn't dumb things down, had plenty of material for the adults, and enough gags and stimulation for the kids.

In one of my favourite scenes, the chipmunks are giving Dave the Christmas presents they have made for him. Theodore's gift is a homemade card, and inside it is a picture of their family. The picture is laboriously drawn, a sacrifice of time and feeling; a heart's gift, and completely in the spirit of what Anna Jarvis, the creator of Mother's Day, envisioned for this special day.

"She expected us to do it with simple gestures - in her opinion, a single white carnation and a heartfelt letter were best."*

I think that sounds just wonderful.


* Reference: Mother's Day creator likely 'spinning in her grave', by Louisa Taylor, The Vancouver Sun, May 11, 2008.

Reader Comments

Jaymez

15/05/2008 at 02:12

I think it is wonderful if children spend more time rather than money on their parents. Being surrounded by your children over a nice meal sounds heaps better than being surrounded by presents.

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16/05/2008 at 16:20

I get a little worked up over Mother's Day. All the advertising DOES affect me and I resent it. Thanks to the department I work in, I was bombarded in the weeks before "the big day" with ads. In previous years, I HAVE caved to the commercial pressure. I've bought expensive presents AND paid up to $70 a head plus drinks to take Mum and the rest of the family to a nice restaurant. I hate it like I hate Valentine's Day. I sit there, next to all the other tables of children "treating" their mothers and think what suckers we are.

This year, my brother and I (but mainly I) cooked a three-course meal. I'm not exactly Gordon Ramsay so I was alittle bit nervous about how it was going to turn out - so much so that once we sat down at the table, I couldn't eat and burst into tears with relief.

Mum was very appreciative that we had gone to the trouble, though. I'm sure the fact I was crying at the table had nothing to do with her proclaiming it "the best Mother's Day eve

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